Active listening, as the term implies, requires active participation on the part of the listener; the listener does more than just listen. It calls for the listener to become actively involved in the process of communication by periodically confirming understanding of what’s being said by the speaker. Developing active listening skills demands practice.
When using active listening while conducting job interviews, there are several important points to remember.
First, be genuinely curious about what the applicant is saying. Even if you’re tempted to tune out because you’ve heard the question and the usual response a hundred times, force yourself to be curious about what the candidate is saying.
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Make an effort to engage with the candidate, and suddenly you’ll find yourself taking real interest in what’s being said. There’s nothing more encouraging to a candidate than to have an interviewer really listen and to confirm that listening with appropriate questions or statements.
Second, don’t be judgmental. When a candidate makes statements that you disagree with, don’t voice your disagreement. Remember that this is the candidate’s opportunity to tell a story about the use of a certain skill or ability, or simply to express an opinion. Reserve your judgment for the evaluation phase of the process—that’s where it belongs. During the interview, focus only on making sure that you understand exactly what the candidate is saying.
Third, make a conscious effort to resist distractions, whether internal or external. Active listening requires total concentration on what’s being said. Control those distractions that are controllable so that the concentration of everyone participating in the interview process remains unbroken.
Fourth, reflect content back to the candidate. When you tell candidates what you think they’re saying, you encourage them to continue speaking, you show sincere interest in their presentations,
and you demonstrate concern for the accuracy of the message they’re conveying.
Fifth, listen for the emotions behind a candidate’s words. Those emotions can include happiness, sadness, fear, disappointment, frustration, anxiety, and every other emotion. When you hear a candidate talking in emotional terms, learn more about why the emotional response is there by saying, “You sound frustrated with your present job. What is there about it that frustrates you most?”
Sixth, don’t interrupt a candidate with a follow-up question. Sometimes while you’re actively listening to a candidate, you’ll suddenly think of an important follow-up question that simply must be asked. When that happens, jot it down and ask it later. Interrupting a candidate who’s
attempting to answer specific behavioral questions is a little like throwing cold water on a fire.
And seventh, while we’re on the subject of note taking, plan to take plenty of notes about what the candidate says. Not only does note taking demonstrate the importance of what’s being said, but it also will prove invaluable when it comes time to evaluate candidates.
Taken From: 10 Minute Guide to Conducting a Job Interview